Orgasm Denial: Subspace gives power to Women

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Orgasm Denial: Why Dominant Women like it?
Orgasm Denial: Why submissive men like it?
Orgasm Denial: How does it work?
Orgasm Denial: Trannying day
Orgasm Denial: When chastity is almost a must
Orgasm Denial: Metamorphosis of a Dominant Woman

Orgasm Denial: Prolonged denial gradually

Orgasm Denial: Get men cranky

Orgasm Denial: The weaning process

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The power exchange exists in the realm of the minds so to the submissive male, being denied can provide him with more mental pleasure and more mental fulfillment than a physical orgasm. The aroused and denied male will spend more time in subspace and thus his mind will be on a mental sphere where the female rules supreme in his life and he is much more eager to serve the female. The mental stimulation should touch a man's psychological triggers, which will stimulate him sexually. It is that mental stimulation that causes an intense power exchange and that can make sex more pleasurable for the woman both physically and mentally while at the same time fulfilling the male need to be dominated.
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Orgasm Denial: Why men live Women unfulfilled sexually

Wrapping

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Flogging with someone

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Generally speaking, avoid unintentional ”wrapping”, which is when the tips of the tails wrap around a curved part of the body such as the shoulders, torso, butt or legs. In wrapping the tips accelerate tremendously and the resulting excessive force at the tips almost always causes an undesirable increase in pain. One difficulty in avoiding wrapping is that the tips can fly so fast that you may have trouble seeing. A person sometimes has to estimate where the tails are hitting, especially in darker environments.

In addition, when throwing a flogger people often have a tendency to lunge forward, which can cause wrapping if it’s not compensated. On rare occasions a bottom may desire wrapping, but then this should be done by mutual agreement and with care to not overdo it.

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Careful while flogging

London Fetish Weekend 2013

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Play PartyFriday - 13th September - ‘Lucky 13′

A play party to kick off the weekend with a dance floor featuring top UK DJs. This year’s events kick off on Friday 13th September with our ‘Lucky 13′ play & dance party sponsored by HogSpy & DommeTrips. There will be a large dungeon, separate dance room, chill out area and couples room. The venue is the wonderfully decedent Protocol in Vauxhall just moments away from the tube, bus station and mainline.

Dress code: Fetish! No effort no entry.

London Alternative Market - Saturday 14th

The biggest collection of fetish, fantasy and kinky stalls in London with workshops, shows, food and bar. Drag yourself out of bed (or cage) for Saturday’s shop till you drop at the London Alternative Market. Once again the LAM will be taking over the whole of the venue and with a bar and great food available, it’s the perfect place to spend the afternoon. There will also be demos and shows throughout the day.

Dress code: Street clothing acceptable but feel free to dress up!

The LFW Ball - Saturday 14th

Dance and play the night away at the LFW Ball. Huge dungeon, chill out area, couples room, play area, shows and dance floor.

This year sees the LFW collaborate with FIVE top names on the London Fetish event scene. Meeting and greeting you will be the ever glamorous Decadence team in the river bar which has amazing views over London. There will be an extensive Subversion play area with equipment by Playpenz, an Imaginariam dance and performance area, a Wonderland play area (with their famous ball play pit!), a bondage stage by world famous rope expert Esinem and his Bound crew plus a Wonderland naughty room in the center of it all!

Strict fetish dress code: Fantasy or fetish Absolutely NO street clothes.

Preaching to the Peverted Screening - Sunday 15th

Sunday early evening we will round off the weekend by showing the digitally remastered cult film ‘Preaching to the Peverted’. We are showing this film in the beautiful 52 seater boutique cinema, Shortwave in Bermondsey. The London Fetish Weekend have donated 5 pairs of weekend passes to help support their Kickstarter campaign to digitally remaster the film and all profits from the event will go towards the project.

Dress code: Street clothing acceptable but feel free to dress up!

Warm up the Play

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Obama:"If you are going to hit me could you hit me on the back? I'm sensitive in er... front!"

Michelle:"BEG, Ted! Beg me to make you suffer and want to scream from the pain of it. That's the way I want my men now. That's how I want you to behave."

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Obama:"Please Michelle, stop. That hurts! Oh gosh, look what You made me do. So that's what it takes to make a man want You! Just a few touches of pain, a sense of absolute of helplessness. You enjoyed it!"

Michelle:"Very well, my masochistic subject, I'll untie you from the cross. Now ... GET ON YOUR KNEES! That's it. DOWN!... LIKE A DOG! Alright, Obama, now hold this position. STAY, Ted, STAY! That's the way I like my dogs ... OBEDIENT!"

Obama:"Please Michelle, not too hard. I hurt all over already."

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How to choose a DILDO

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Size matters. Too big can be uncomfortable and too small won’t hit the spot.

If you know the dimensions of a penis or a toy that has worked well in the past, try something similar.

You can also use a cucumber or zucchini for an inexpensive way to find the size that’s right for you. Wash it well, find the right size & measure it.

Width is sometimes more important than length. If a dildo is too long, you can always insert just part of it, but there’s no way to change it if the width is wrong.

Most dildos have a base that can be used in a harness for hands-free fun.

Curved dildos are great for G-spot or prostate pleasure.

What are Dildos Made From

Jelly, PVC, elastomer, softskin, vinyl and rubber dildos tend to be softer and more flexible. They’re also less expensive, so you can try them out. However, they have a tendency to tear after a while and need to be replaced.

Silicone, glass, wood, and metal dildos are often firmer. They tend to cost more, but they’re more durable and will give you years of pleasure.

How to Clean a Dildo

Jelly, PVC, vinyl, elastomer, rubber and softskin toys are somewhat porous and difficult to get 100% clean.

Cover these with a condom, especially for anal play, if more than one person will use it, or if you’re prone to yeast infections. Change the condom if you switch from anal play to vaginal play or if someone else wants to use it.

Time to Hard Direct Pain

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Neurochemicals behind lust, attraction and love

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After five or ten minutes, the bottom's endorphin pump is ready again, and it's time to take the bottom to the next level. This is done by administering hard direct pain. At stage two, the Top may find that a hard hand spanking for about a minute is enough to release the second endorphin hit. When the Top is done, returns to giving the bottom gentle touching, reassurances, and praise to soothe the bottom's back into a relaxed state of mind. Again, the Top spends another five to ten minutes with flogging mixed with hand spanking, and maybe some light paddling. The Top is always watching the bottom's body language to sense when the bottom is feeling that the Top is being too intense. If the bottom's shoulders tense up or the bottom pulls away from the Top, the Top goes immediately into "touching mode" with massage and gentle reassurances. The Top's goal is, for the bottom, to completely relax and to accept rather than pull away from whatever the Top is doing. The rhythmic percussion of the toys in time to the soothing music mixed with the endorphin and Top's voice create a deep relaxation in the bottom similar to what you might experience in hypnosis.
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Montreal Fetish Weekend 2013

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Montreal Fetish Weekend's 9th annual edition offers you unique opportunities to celebrate your fantasy with enthusiasts visiting from all over the world!

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Located in the heart of Montreal's « Village » pedestrian area, the Fetish Weekend allows you to experience a fetish holiday unlike anything else.

All Events and activities are all set within walking distance from our hotels. Get ready for 6 incredible days and nights of non-stop kinky delights.

The « Village Street Fair » will feature many free activities: « For Love and Fashion » presentation, the Expo Kink vendor's area, a fabulous Priape « happening » at Mado's and the incredible Fetish Photo Walk!

Save with our special limited time VIP sale and maximize your pleasure.

Take advantage of our reduced hotel group rates starting at $89 per night.

Flogging the Back

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The basic area to flog is the upper back on each side of the spine. Try to stay off the spine to prevent injury to the vertebrae and related tissues, and the skinnier the person is the more important this is. Also avoid swinging the tails down the back onto the hips or upper butt, or else this may cause a different kind of pain that is undesirable. Rather than a full swinging motion (this isn’t golf :P ) that carries the tails down the back, stop the flogger immediately after it hits or even pull it backwards in a snapping motion right before it hits. By varying this motion you can control how much of the tails connect with the back; more will cause greater thud while hitting with just the tips will be stingier.

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Wrapping

Careful while flogging

Prostate: Seek and Strike with pleasure

HOW TO FIND THE PROSTATE

The prostate gland is a male sexual organ that produces up to 1/3 of the fluid in semen.

It’s about the size of a ping-pong ball and can be found be inserting a finger or toy into the anus and curling it towards the navel (upwards, if he’s face up).

It’s often easier to have someone else find it, unless you’re flexible enough (and have long enough fingers) to reach your own.

You might find it easier to locate the prostate when your partner is already turned on because it engorges during arousal. Prostate touch when he is not yet aroused might not feel comfortable.

Many men enjoy prostate massage or other stimulation, such as with vibrating anal toys. Some men have concerns about sexual orientation and prostate play. Remember -- what feels good to you is about where the nerve endings are. Your sexual orientation is not about specific acts – it is about the gender of the person/s you want to have sex with. These are two separate things. The prostate is part of the male anatomy; transgender men may have G-spots rather than prostates, and transwomen have prostates but may use other words to describe their anatomy.

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HOW TO STIMULATE THE PROSTATE

Lots of G-spot vibrators and dildos are great for prostate play, as long as they’re anal-safe. Anal sex toys are:

Easy to clean such as silicone or borosilicate glass (or covered with a condom).

Smooth, since the anus is more delicate than the vagina, and unbreakable.

Have a base to keep them from going all the way inside.

Generally, actions such as stroking, pressure, or larger motions feel better than small motions and  vibrations – though sometimes prostate vibration is very much enjoyed.

Some popular ways to pleasure the prostate with a finger or two include: making the “come here” motion, a “windshield wiper” movement, tapping, circles, or firm pressure.

Some men love prostate play, while others say that it doesn’t do anything for them or even that it does not feel good.

Different sensations can feel good at different times during the arousal cycle.

Combining prostate pleasure with something familiar such as oral sex can make it easier to explore.

Prostate stimulation can feel similar to the sensation of needing to urinate. With practice and familiarity, you can learn to tell the feelings apart.