Breath play: facesitting

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Now a strange and deliberate feeling of sweet calm come over the girl. How exhilarating was to have  Clinton helpless beneath her. She could do anything she wanted with him. She could make him submit to her every whim, and carry out her most preposterous wish. She shifted her position so that her crotch was pressed fully against his mouth. There was contempt in her voice...

Monica: "Suffer, Clinton. Lie still! A big strong boy like you, having to lie there absolutely unable to do a damned thing. Breath deeply, Ted. That's a girl who has you down like this..."

If only there were some way she could secure this helpless slave, some way she could prolong this feeling of triumph over this representative of every man she had ever sought vengeance against. Then she turned and there, hanging from a tree, was a sturdy rope, just the thing she needed.

Clinton:"MM-MM-PH! Please, Monica ... L-Let m-me BREATH!"
Monica:"Alright, Clinton! I'll move down a little if you promise to cross your wrists above your head and hold them there like a good little captive slave."

Flog with SSC!

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Before any flogging, the participants should negotiate what is desired and what isn’t, along with what “safeword” or other indication the “bottom” is to use to slowdown or stop the flogging. Does the “bottom” like stinging or thud sensations? How open is he or she to new experiences? Has this person had much experience with flogging? Novices may think they can take lots of pain, and then be surprised at what a good flogging actually feels like.

In addi­tion, pertinent medical or physical problems should be made known before beginning.
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Prostate massage

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Techniques for the Prostate Massage

“There are different techniques to stimulating the prostate orgasm. You can use a vibrator and a vibration alone against the prostate can give them an anal orgasm.

The other one is there are a lot of man who will need a penal stimulation so oral sex is good, digit or handjob stimulation but sometimes they need, just like women, manual stimulation as well as the rectal stimulation.

The way to achieve a prostate orgasm is to squeeze the prostate during ejaculation on a downward motion so that of someone can stimulate manually or milk it themselves.”

Safety Tips

“Let’s talk some backdoor safety. So again, you wanna remember backdoor has a lot of bacteria and it’s shocking and so you wanna make sure that are condoms or new toys and there’s no double deeping with toys so if you have an anal toy do not use it on the clitoris or the vagina because bacteria does spread and to decrease infection you wanna make sure that backdoor stays backdoor and frontdoor stays frontdoor.

Another thing is finger nails need to be cut, the tissues are actually very thin where the prostate is so no tearing, no rapping, no internal damage and only to stimulate 2 or 3 times a week, more than that could the tissue to cause some damage.”

The feeling of a Prostate Orgasm

“ How hot does the prostate orgasm feel?! Well it’s reported that a prostate orgasm feels like a constant ejaculation during oral sex or any kind of manual stimulation a man will actually feel like he is ejaculating the entire time the prostate is being touched, vibrated, milked. And so when he does get to the ejaculation it’s so much more intense so what he always thought the ejaculation felt like it actually makes them lose strength in their legs so make sure when they’re laying down or holding on something because you have them experience something so much more intense than what they usually experience solo or with the partner.

Another thing about prostate orgasm is that instead of semen spreading out it’s a constant flow because you’re milking it from where the muscles that are pushing it out you’re milking it to the point that semen just completelly flows out.”

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Leading your pony

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In ponyplay, just like in the bio-equine world, stand to the left of your pony. You will also want to stand slightly ahead of your pony: the pony should remain to your right and slightly behind at all times. Hold the pony's reins (or lead rope if the pony is in a halter) in your right hand about 12-18 inches away from where the reins attach to the bit. Hold any excess rein neatly coiled or folded in your left hand. Show your pony you trust him/her by leaving some slack in the lead rope/reins and only tighten up when he misbehaves or breaks the rules. Insist on a least a foot of space between you and your pony at all times. When your pony invades your space, whatever the reason, push him off and jab him gently in the shoulder with your elbow. You can also flick your pony with the end of the reins or with a crop if you have one. If your pony gets distracted while being led, snap the lead line/reins down sharply; this will help him focus on you again. If your pony does not listen even after you tug sharply backwards on the reins, then you should pull him sharply to the side to make him walk in a circle. Tighten the circle until he stops, then you can start walking in a straight line again. On the other hand, if your pony does not want to move forward, you should start pulling him sharply in your direction in a tight circle. This works well because you will take him off-balance, and he cannot put all his weight into resisting you when he off balance. Finally, use the power of your voice: when you want your pony to halt, use a command in addition to your physical cue (i.e., whoa, halt, walk, back up, etc.). In addition to the word, there is also the emotional stimulus expressed in the tone and inflection of your voice. The inflection of your voice can express disappointment, anger, or warmth.
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Betrayed

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Clinton: “Heh, Monica, looks like you blew it. Putin's gone and married Angelina”.
Her old man's taking him back to England with them.
Monica: “But look kid, if you feel like whoring around with a guy, well, I'm no kid anymore and I'll sure be glad to...”
Shocked, stunned by the news, Monica stood shaking her head in disbelief. Then Clinton's words penetrated her brain. A wild fury seized her. She grabbed Ted by the shirtfront.
Monica:”Whoring around?.... you ... you impertinent little upstart! I was in LOVE with Putin. That's why I let him...”
Clinton:”LOVE? Love hell. He had lots of girls, even while he was going with you, Monica. You were just one of the girls in the line-up.”

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Monica: “Apologize, Clinton! Take that back! You know Putin was in love with me. He told me so. Take that back or I'll break your neck!”
Clinton:”Come on, don't be silly. Let go before I hurt you. It'll be a cold day in hell before I let any girl make me apologize”.
Suddenly something snapped in Monica's mind. This was no longer just Putin's kid brother bearing painful tidings. Clinton was every enemy she had spoken to her disrespectfully, had accused her of ... her strength seemed unlimited. She shoved and twisted until Clinton sprawled to the ground. Immediately she dove upon him and seized his wrists in the most powerful of grips.

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Slowly she pulled his wrists along the rough ground until they were at shoulder level. She pressed her knees against the insides of his elbows, moved up his body until her silken clad thighs were pressing hard against his ears and her silk-pan-tied- crotch rested against his adam's apple. She slapped his face several times each one making clear hand prints on his cheeks.

Monica: “Since you didn't apologize when you had the chance, you'll suffer the consequences!”
Clinton: “Suffer? With a pretty chick on top of me, her skirt up high and her nipple inches from my face, let me suffer like this. Monica then maybe we can go a little further!”

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Monica: “Are you still enjoying yourself, Clinton?”
Clinton: “Watch it Monica. Hey! That really hurts! Come on now ... let up!”
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Whining baby sissy

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I wake up early the following morning and went checking on my baby-sissy. As I approached her crib I mockingly asked how she slept? She just started to whining like a baby and that kind of humiliation just fulfilled myself with joy and pure excitement. I explained that I was going to change her. I unlocked the top of her crib, removed her dirty diaper and cleaned her up.

I then told her to stay in her crib while I went downstairs to prepare her breakfast. I had barely turned around to leave and the little sissy was already whining again uncontrollably for being all alone locked in the crib, I just laughed as I walked out of the room.

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To the novice flogging may look easy, and actually it’s not that difficult, but it does require concentration and physical exertion along with some prac­tice. However, knowledge of some basic guidelines can greatly enhance the learning curve and enrich the experience for both the Top and the bottom. And a beginner would do well to practice on a wall or a pillow, focusing on the intended striking point.

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Anal Myths and the Super Orgasm

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Prostate Myths

You might have said to your guy: “I would like to explore the prostate ...” and they like:”No way, I’m hetero only, I’m not gay ...”. Any kind of thing that you have might heard from a guy involving that only gay men have anal sex, statically had shown that gay men actually prefer oral sex over anal so you can tell them that. Another thing is they do perform anal on women right ... Does that turn you into a gay man? No, it just means that you enjoy anal stimulation. It’s the same something. It will not turn anyone gay. In fact, there’s no such thing as turning someone gay, either you are or you’re not. So make sure that they understand the more comfortable they are with they’re body the more pleasure they can get out of it. So if they could just put over this one heard then they would able to experience the most powerful orgasm which is called the “Super Orgasm” that a man could ever experienced, it is reported that it is more intense than a female’s orgasm, so that’s totally something that a man would want to try.

Another thing is that it gives you hemorrhoids or you can lose the bowel control, sometimes people think that soon as you open the sphincters they’ll never shut which if you do have a bowel movement you know that they do shut back again. And again remind them that they are doing this to you and you would hope that your sphincters would be shutting again and you’re not having uncontrolled bowel movement. The way the sphincters actually work is the more that they are relaxed when they do tight and actually tighten back up tighter. So that the more do you use the backdoor for play the tighter you’re sphincters actually become in the long-run the more controlled you get, so that you’re really improving backdoor health by having backdoor sex, if you don’t use it you lose it. So remind it of them too.

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Irene's teasing photos

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I think Karl accepted the idea of eating at Irene's just because he was intrigued by that picture. Not that he had a clue as to what was going to happen, nor did I if you come right down to it. She served us drinks and we sat in the living room talking for a while, at least an hour. She was always a good conversationalist and seemed to have no trouble keeping things going so we were all three talking.

"So Karl, Karen tells me you were intrigued by my picture."

"Oh, was that you?" asked Karl, grinning. We'd had a bunch of drinks and I wasn't as embarrassed by it all as I might be.

Irene just smiled back at him and said "Want to see more?" Then she was gone. Her smile had looked, well, a little calculating, to me at least. Then she was back with a picture album. She sat in the middle of the couch and invited us to sit on each side of her. Then she opened the book.

There were several pictures of her. All with a whip. In some she was dressed as in the other picture, in some she just wore an ordinary, rather conservative suit. It reminded me that I was wearing very conservative clothes because that's what she'd told me to do. She was too, wearing the same suit as she was in the picture.

She flipped the page. One picture: Michael, kneeling, nude! A blindfold was over his eyes and his hands were cuffed behind his back. He had a leather collar around his neck. We stared in silence. The next picture had Michael in the same position, but Irene was in the picture too, in her little leather outfit. She was holding the whip up to Michael's lips and he had part of it in his mouth. She flipped again and it was Michael, dressed the same, but bent down so his rear was in the air and his head was on the floor. And when she flipped it again, it was her whipping him!

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Neurochemicals in the Play

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In the context of neurochemicals, your scenes can become much more powerful. It's obvious now why the gentle caress of the Top's hand alternating with the pain of whatever is being used can be so powerful. Not only there is pleasure/pain and genital stimulation leading to orgasm, but there is also oxytocin, dopamine, endorphins, within both the Top and the bottom from the touching are all released as well. In addition, the orgasms are very powerful since there is a giving up of control in the process. As the Top and bottom climb together in the scene, the release of the oxytocin brings them closer together, and at the end, the intense emotions they feel for one another create a very strong bond. If there's a will to have the bottom the "flying effect" (as opposed to the simple sadistic pleasure of making the bottom scream in pain), there's a need to understand and work with the bottom's system of neurochemicals. It doesn't take much to get an initial endorphin flush to pain. The Top can start off with some gradually escalating nipple stimulation at the start of a scene. Simply pinching the nipples for 30-60 seconds with increasing pressure is enough to get that first endorphin hit. As the Top is doing this, the Top is reassuring the bottom with a backward countdown from 20.  This lets the bottom know that this is a temporary condition that's about to stop. When done, the Top praise the bottom for being good and let the bottom know how much the bottom has pleased the Top by taking the nipple torture gracefully. At that point, with soothing rhythmic music playing in the background, the Top may start with some light flogging. Because it takes five to ten minutes for the bottom's endorphin pump to recharge itself, the Top's goal for now is to allow the bottom to relax into the scene. Massage, light flogging, light touching, the sound of the Top's voice reassuring and praising the bottom, coaxing into relaxing, into listening to the music, into accepting and not fighting the sensations that the bottom's experiencing. During all of this, the Top's building the bottom oxytocin levels as the bottom settles into the bottom's first light endorphin hit.
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Dog Training Party in Lisbon

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EDEN PARTY LISBOA.
RESERVED ACCESS: for reservation email edenpartylisboa@gmail.com

Eden Party is pleased to present, on 13th April by 22pm, the party Dog Training Night.

The EDEN PARTY will be held once again in a Private Bar, right in the center of Lisbon.

The game Dog Training the human dog is widespread in the BDSM community, animalization human is more frequent and common as a dog (Puppy Play) and as a pony (Pony Play).

The human dog is part of a role play, coming true a fantasy of a submissive to take on such role, being treated since that time as a pet, Puppy, trained in the image of its Owner.

Synopsis:

Dog Training Show

Being this practice common and a fantasy, Mistress Dominik will do with Her elegance, a Puppy Play as a result of a Dog Training showing how the pet must be trained, its posture, with or without voice command.

The affection and tenderness on how a pet is tailored to the image of its Owner with Her/His philosophies and Her/His own rituals, with reward and punishment.

Dog Training Show

by Mistress Dominik

Photo and Flyer: Erothiko

Start: 00h30

It will be a liberal private party with respect for everything and everyone, and the freedom of choice of each person.

Note: All names have to be on the Guestlist.

Location: will be sent upon confirmation.

We appreciate your confirmation until 13th April by 21pm.

Access price per person: 

10 Edens(=euros). Without access to Sauna.Includes 2 drinks (juice, water) or 1 alcohol drink.

15 Edens(=euros). With access to Sauna.Includes 2 drinks (juice, water) or 1 alcohol drink.1 Locker, 1 towel, 1 pair of slippers.

PS: Each towel has added an extra 2 euros

Access price for Men's Singles NON-MEMBERS of Eden Party

20 Edens(=euros). Without access to Sauna. Includes 4 capsule drinks or two alcohol drinks

30 Edens(=euros). With access to Sauna. Includes 4 capsule drinks or two alcohol drinks, slippers, towel and a locker.

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Prostate Stimulation

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Location

"The prostate is below the bladder and above the penis."

Size

"The prostate size is between a walnut and a kiwit."

Function

"The prostate stores about 30% of the semen and the muscle envolve the prostate push the ejaculation from the prostate into the uretra so he can ejaculate after orgasm. The prostate is not the female “G” spot it’s the female’s Skene’s gland wich push the female’s ejaculation."

Finding the prostate

"To find the prostate people will insert fingers, toys 2 or 3 inches up towards the belly button. The toys are flared based so it comes out or they have a ring and that’s because you have strong sphinsters so they can suck things up and ..."

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Aftercare after Hot Wax Play

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When all the wax is removed the bottom's skin may be in an altered state. Their body temperature will be trying to regulate itself, so they may go through feeling hot or chilled. It is great to have a blanket nearby to wrap them in and give them some water to drink. You will also want to touch them. Their skin will be extra sensitive. Just placing a hand on your bottom's body and holding in stillness is great. This is also a wonderful time for massage, gentle touching, or additional light sensual play. I invite you spice things up a bit in your bedroom with some wonderful candle way play.

Bondage: types of rope

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There are two types that is common use: clothesline and nylon. Pick up a 50 foot package of 7/32 inch by 100 feet cotton rope. Cut it into variable lengths between 7 and 18 or so feet. You'll want to have shorter lengths for some things such as tying feet, wrists and longer for others, such as around chests and arms or thighs. Once cut you may want to protect the ends from fraying. Nylon cord is easy to melt with a candle's flame. Heat it enough so that it begins to melt and then form it into a secure end.

You'll have to be a bit more creative with the frayed ends of clothesline. You may immersed the ends of your first ropes in glue and then let the glue dry by setting the ropes' ends on wax paper. Be sure the glue soaks into the rope. Rubber cement works, but not as well. To be real fancy, you could wrap the ends with thin twine.

At this point you could read a boy scout handbook or a book on knot tying. Of course it's not a bad idea to get one of those anyway, though many bondage enthusiasts will readily admit that they use only a few standard knots.

Clothesline is the rope for many people because it ties easily and is flexible. It tends to get dirty, though, and sometimes the knots can be more difficult to untie.

Nylon, on the other hand, seems to stay cleaner and is easier to loosen. The down side to this is that nylon knots tend to loosen too easily. You can get it in various thicknesses (1/4, 3/8, 1/2 inch for instance) and lengths. People usually prefer the 3/8 inch ropes. Thinner is more dangerous, thicker is harder to work with. In any case, among these three choices it's probably more a question of esthetics than safety, as long as you tie knots safely in the first place.

Avoid twine, any thin rope or thread, and any rope made of a rough material such as jute or manila. Leather thongs are nice if used with care. Be mindful that the thinner the cord, the more liable it is to cut or otherwise damage skin. Thin cords are more dangerous too in that they will more easily cut off your bottom's circulation.

An exception might be the use of nylon twine where you use lots of twine to weave your bondage around your bottom. Here I emphasize weaving as opposed to tying per se, though it may be just a matter of terminology. If the tying is done so that the twine remains snug enough to stay but loose enough so as not to constrict, the bondage can be a real work of art. The details for such artistry, though, are beyond an intro course. Mentioning it is just food for thought.

NEVER FORGET: Never tie someone up without a pair of good scissors nearby in case of an emergency.

Femdom "1st time" story

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At Irene's suggestion, I suggested Me and Karl sit in bed reading Irene's letters, taking turns going through the whole magazine, it being up to me to figure out which ones turned him on. 

Yes, there were some Female Domination letters, and I wouldn't have believed it, but  was definitely turned on by them. So I took a deep breath and went to the next step. I showed him the picture of Irene. 

"Wow! There are sides to Irene that I never suspected!" 

"Well, what do you think?" 

"She looks hot! Hmm, maybe she could loan you that outfit!"

My heart was beating unbelievably fast. I'd done it! Not only had I broached the subject, but Karl was receptive! But I still had to make it clear what she was talking about.

"She said Michael used to feel that whip."

He didn't say anything but just stared at the picture. I went on: "Do you think you would enjoy being dominated by a woman?"

He still didn't say a thing. He just stared at the picture. Then he looked at me. And finally put the picture aside and kissed me. He was on top of me in seconds and he was an animal!

"He wants it," was Irene's pronouncement when I told her about our escapades. 

"You've got him where you want him."

"Irene! I didn't say I..."

"Oh, come off it ... why do you think you've been doing all this? You're just curious to see if Karl would be willing? I'll bet you're wet all the time just thinking about getting Karl..."

"Irene!" I said, shocked.

She laughed. "Sorry about my mouth."

I laughed too, maybe a little nervously.

"So now you have to set something up," she went on.

"Set up?" Somehow it hadn't sunk in that I was actually going to do anything like this.

"I can see you won't be able to get this off the ground. I'll have to help you."

"Irene, I..."

"I'll get you two started! Listen, don't worry about it ... I know how to do this."

"I don't know, Irene," I said uncertainly.

"Afraid you'll be jealous? Look, he's ready to eat out of your hand. Literally. After this, you'll never be jealous again, I guarantee it."

"What'll you do?"

"Just get him to be subservient to you and get you used to the idea. Look, once you get over this first hump, you won't believe you were worried about this. Look, I'll invite the two of you over for dinner and we'll have a few drinks and I'll take it from there."

I was still uncertain ... I asked her what she was going to do, but she said she had to play it by ear. She finally convinced me and we set a date.

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Orgasm Denial: Get men cranky

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Orgasm Denial: Prolonged denial gradually

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Men get cranky if they don't get sexual relief after awhile and there are biological reasons for this. The body produces semen in accordance with the male's age and the frequency of his sexual orgasms. The more often a man orgasms, the more his body will expect orgasms and thus the more semen his body will produce. The less frequent his body has sexual release, the less semen his body will produce over time. So a man needs to be weaned off of frequent orgasms much like a body needs weaned off of caffeine, nicotine, medications, sugar, etc. The good news to the wife that hungers to deny her husband for prolonged period of times is that this process accelerates.
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