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Tuesday, 26 February 2013

Orgasm Denial: Metamorphosis of a Dominant Woman

Before reading this article, read these ones:

Orgasm Denial: Why Dominant Women like it?
Orgasm Denial: Why submissive men like it?
Orgasm Denial: How does it work?
Orgasm Denial: Trannying day
Orgasm Denial: When chastity is almost a must

There is an evolution that takes place within most women as they experiment with this lifestyle. Most women start out timid and unsure about this lifestyle. Then once they begin to overcome their inhibitions and embrace the dominant side of their personality, they begin to love being dominant and controlling. Over time, the Doms appetite grows and she hungers for more control and more power. Denying a man orgasms is a real power rush. Women who practice this lifestyle will eventually learn that a sexually satisfied man is a selfish man but a denied man is an obedient man.

Orgasm Denial: Why men live Women unfulfilled sexually

Transgender adult baby

Riley:"My name is Riley, I am twentyfive years old, I live on Santa Buffalo (New York) and I'm addicted to be an adult baby. I dress as a baby as often as I can. Whenever I come home I always sweep into one of my cute outfits and helps me wash away all the stress of the Big tough world."

Reporter: "Riley has turned her bedroom into a nursery. She sleeps in her crib every night."

Riley: "I love pijamas, especially the body pijamas, things with ... and pink, I love wearing my hair with pink tails and sucking on my pacifier. I started wearing diapers since I was thirteen and that kind gradually turned into fascination about pacifiers and onesies and baby or diaper accessories. When I was younger, I felt ashamed, I was afraid I wouldn't be able to have a normal life."

Reporter: "Riley's friend James is one of the few people who knows of her behaviour."

James:"I first knew about Riley's behaviour was after three or so years after we became friends. I was a little surprised because we don't run with many adults who love to dress like babies"

Riley: "You know it's so very unique to me and definitely I don't tell people unless they'll be ok with this. It's my little secret."

Reporter:"Riley is also transgender. She was born a male but always felt awkward and out of place. Five years ago, Riley began living as a female."

Riley:"I believe that gender is something that you can choose. I very much believe that I'm a girl and that just feels so comfortable and just so right."

Watch the video HERE !

Ageplayers: Who are they?

Sunday, 17 February 2013

SSC: SAFE, SANE and CONSENSUAL

SM is always consensual.
If it's not consensual it is abuse.
You might be abuse if:

you are afraid to say no or use your safeword;
you cannot withdraw consent and stop what's happening at any time;
you cannot set limits without being ridiculed, threatened or coerced into changing them;
your partner threatens to out you for being into S/M;
yur partner ignores your safewords or tries to convince you not to use them;
you are confused about when a scene begins or ends;
you do not feel free to talk to family or friends whenever you choose;
your parner has threatened to hurt you or themselves if you leave the relationship.

Related articles:
Negotiation in S/M relationship
BDSM vs ABUSE?
Power Play

BDSM vs ABUSE

Abuse is a pattern of behavior where one person tries to control the thoughts, beliefs, or actions of a partner, friend, or ant other person close to them. Abuse is sometimes referred to as domestic violence, battering, and intimate partner abuse.

Abuse is not hust an indvidual issue but a community issue. It affects all types of families and communities including S/M, traditional, straight, polyamorous, monogamous, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities. Abuse crosses all social, ethni, racial, and economic lines.

Abusers may use a number of ways to control their partner, none of which are acceptable in the context of a consensual, negotiated S/M relationship.

Negotiation in S/M relationship

SCC: Safe, Sane and Consensual

Power Play

Saturday, 16 February 2013

Negotiation in S/M relationship

Negotiation to gain consent is one of the cornerstones of SM activities. This requires an understanding of yourself and your desires, and an understanding that these desires are mutable and may change with your moods, stresses of your daily life/etc. Many people use extensive checklists to negotiate their scenes. Others who are more clear about what they want and have the ability to communicate clearly will be able to negotiate well without such lists. Sit down with your parner(s) and discuss your desires and interests. Then as an exercise, take some time to learn to say "no" to certain requests. Being sex positive is not about saying yes all the time. Is is also about saying "I'm bit interested," and having that heeded. Without this fundamental basis of consent, SM activities can cross the line to abusive behavior.
Related articles:
BDSM vs ABUSE?
SCC: Safe, Sane and Consensual
Power Play

Orgasm Denial: When chastity is almost a must

Before reading this article, read these ones:
Orgasm Denial: Why Dominant Women like it?
Orgasm Denial: Why submissive men like it?
Orgasm Denial: How does it work?
Orgasm Denial: Trannying day

Some couples work on the honor system as the wife has her man trained to the point that he dare not disobey her by masturbating. Some men cannot be trusted in this area or they are prone to have accidents, thus a chastity device might be an option. Some dominant women like to use a chastity device as a tool of punishment and training. In these cases, the wearing of such a device may only be for a season or only on occasion. Then some women might require long-term and even permanent wear of a chastity device for their husbands. Permanent male chastity exists in some FemDom relationships and the husband is only permitted prostate milkings. In these arrangements, a chastity device is almost a must.

Friday, 15 February 2013

Ageplayers: Who are they?

Ageplay has nothing to do with pedophilia and are probably one of the least understood subcultures in the world of BDSM.

Ageplay is a form of (usually) erotic roleplaying in which at least one participant plays the role of someone with a different age. it's often not about is reality. Ageplayers only roleplay.

Here are some sort of ageplayers who like this kind of roleplay:

Adult babies and diaper lovers;

“Kidz” who roleplay being school-age or teenage;

Sissies, who are “boys” who like to be feminized and made to feel young as a form of power exchange;

Babyfurs, members of the Furry Fandom who are also AB’s or DL’s;

And the many different kinds of “grownups” who love them – Mommies, Daddies, Aunties, Uncles, Nannies, & Sitters are just a few.

Infantilism: What is it?

Infantilism: The babysitter

Infantilism Comics: Pink Diapers 1