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If it's not consensual it is abuse.
You might be abuse if:
- you are afraid to say no or use your safeword;
- you cannot withdraw consent and stop what's happening at any time;
- you cannot set limits without being ridiculed, threatened or coerced into changing them;
- your partner threatens to out you for being into S/M;
- yur partner ignores your safewords or tries to convince you not to use them;
- you are confused about when a scene begins or ends;
- you do not feel free to talk to family or friends whenever you choose;
- your parner has threatened to hurt you or themselves if you leave the relationship.
Negotiation in S/M relationship
BDSM vs ABUSE?
Power Play
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