The Top takes the bottom to its limits

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Neurochemicals behind lust, attraction and love

Oxytocin - the "love" hormone

Neurochemicals in the Play

Time to hard direct pain

Bottom goes deeper into subspace

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How far the Top takes the bottom is up to both to decide. If the Top takes the bottom to level three, probably the bottom is not going to do much good for sex afterwards (nice to know if the Top has plans). Of course this is different for everyone, so if the Top has someone that handles more or less, that's not unusual. As always, the Top has to tailor the Top's expectations to the individual. Keep an eye on circulation issues in extremities. If the Top is using cuffs or ropes to bind the bottom, the Top must be careful because as the bottom goes deeper into subspace, the bottom is unlikely to know or tell the Top about problems the bottom may be having. Once the Top gets to level five or so, the bottom is usually going to be pretty incoherent and may be incapable of calling out a safeword or telling the Top if there's a problem. A general rule is that when the bottom can't respond to, "How are you doing?", it's time to stop the scene and take the bottom into aftercare.

Orgasm denial: Why men leave Women unfulfilled sexually?

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Orgasm Denial: Why Dominant Women like it?
Orgasm Denial: Why submissive men like it?
Orgasm Denial: How does it work?
Orgasm Denial: Trannying day
Orgasm Denial: When chastity is almost a must
Orgasm Denial: Metamorphosis of a Dominant Woman

Orgasm Denial: Prolonged denial gradually

Orgasm Denial: Get men cranky

Orgasm Denial: The weaning process

Orgasm Denial: Subspace gives power to Women

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Men have a tendency to be habitual masturbaters and this causes them to become lazy and of little use to the female, sexually, domestically and socially.

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The male orgasm is a biological function that causes a sexual release, which relaxes both the body and the mind. The body wants to relax or even sleep after orgasm and the last thing it wants to do is to be forced to do a physical activity. This is why men lose the desire to pleasure a woman after they have climaxed and that is why so many women are unfulfilled sexually.

Cross tie your pony

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Ponyplay basic training

Leading your pony

Tying your pony

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It is very convenient to cross tie your pony since it keeps your pony centered and allows easy access to both sides your pony. Prior to teaching your pony to cross tie, it is imperative that he be able to stand quietly for an extended period (e.g. 15 minutes or more) of time. That is, the pony should not be fidgeting, pulling, pawing, etc. when tied.

It is good to use verbal commands such as "whoa" to indicate to your pony that you wish for him to stand still. Make sure you have a safe place to tie your pony. Use non-slip flooring, such as rubber mats or dirt since slick surfaces, such as concrete, can be dangerous especially if your pony is wearing hoof boots or shoes with elevated heels. Make the ropes just long enough so that when attached to the posts or walls, the crosstie snaps will barely touch each other in the middle. This will reduce the risk of your pony getting tangled up or turned around when tied.

Now that you have cross ties setup in a safe area with good footing, lead your pony over to the cross-ties and stop him. Once your pony is standing nicely attach both cross tie ropes (via their snap clips) to his bit or halter and detach the lead rope/reins, or alternatively rest them around your pony's neck. Let your pony stand in the cross ties for a couple minutes while you walk around and pet or brush him. This will help calm the pony and let him know the cross ties are safe and he can relax. Reattach the lead rope or reins (if you detached them) and release pony from the cross ties and put him back in his stall. Do this a couple more times (if possible on different days) leaving the pony (make sure you stay nearby for safety) in the cross ties longer each time until he fine standing still in the cross ties for 15 - 30 minutes. Now you can groom and tack up your pony in the cross ties without having to worry about him moving around.

Bottom goes deeper into subspace

Before reading this article please read this one:

Neurochemicals behind lust, attraction and love

Oxytocin - the "love" hormone

Neurochemicals in the Play

Time to hard direct pain

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Once the relaxation period is over, the Top once again administer hard direct pain for a moment so that the bottom may get its third endorphin hit. At this point, the bottom is starting to get a good buzz going on, and the Top will notice that the bottom is a lot more tolerant to pain. The level of paddling that the bottom may have pulled away from earlier now gets little reaction. From time to time, the Top reinforces bottom's good behavior with rewards of genital touching that induce orgasms (under Top's control of course). Pain, pleasure, Top's voice, hypnotic relaxation, loving touch, and orgasmic bliss ... the bottom is on its way to outer space, and the Top is the mission commander for the bottom's flight.

This process is repeated over and over as the bottom goes through each stage and deeper into subspace. As the Top plays, She/He will want to escalate Her/His levels of intensity of play since the bottom is feeling less and less of what the Top is doing. Light flogging becomes hard flogging. Likewise with spanking, paddling, and caning. This allows the Top to open up the Top's more sadistic side with the bottom, not only able to take it but to take it and fly.
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The Top takes the bottom to its limits

Careful while flogging

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Flogging with someone

Flog with SSC!

Flogging the Back

Wrapping

• The butt: 

The butt is very inviting, yet because of its smaller size and roundness it requires greater accuracy to avoid excessive wrapping onto the hips or into the especially sensitive “inner” areas; also avoid hitting the tailbone. When flogged well, though, the butt can be very rewarding. The thighs can be flogged but should be done with extra attention to the power in wrapping.

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• The breasts: 

Female breasts should be flogged relatively lightly to avoid later medical problems, and this may be more important if they are flogged often; males can usually safely take more in this area.

• The kidney area, joints, head and neck:

Generally other parts of the body, especially the kidney area, shouldn’t be flogged except maybe with very light, miniature floggers. Stay away from all joints of the legs and arms, and the head and neck should never be flogged.

Last but not least, Be aware that there is a big difference in flogging someone in the standing position versus lying down.

Are the practices of BDSM pathological?

BDSM involves a diverse range of practices usually involving playing games in which one person assumes a dominant role and another person assumes a submissive role. These activities often involve physical restraint, power plays, humiliation, and sometimes but not always, pain. The person playing the dominant role controls the action, while the person in the submissive role gives up control. Many people have a preferred role they play most of the time, although some people enjoy switching between roles.

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The practice of BDSM carries with it a certain amount of social stigma. Health professions have long had a tendency to view the practice as pathological and even perverted. Common assumptions about people who participate in BDSM are that they psychologically anxious and maladjusted; that they are acting out a past history of sexual abuse; and that they are attempting to compensate for sexual difficulties. However, the small amount of research evidence available suggests that these assumptions are probably not true. For example, a telephone survey found that people who had participated in BDSM in the previous year were not more distressed than others; were not more likely than others to have ever been sexually coerced; and did not report more sexual difficulties. However, to be fair to the mental health profession, it only considers sadism and masochism as mental disorders if they cause the person clinically significant distress or a non-consenting person has been involved. So BDSM practiced between consenting persons who are happy with what they are doing is not officially considered pathological.

Mistress Minerva Pons Entrevista/Interview

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